Intimacy with Ageing

Are you over 50?

Your wellbeing matters – especially in relationships.

Learn how to spot unhealthy behaviours, protect yourself from romance scams, and stay informed about your sexual wellbeing and STI risks.

Let’s talk about consent, safe sex and confidence – because wellness doesn’t retire.

Sex in later life

Sexuality is important to many people, as they get older, but evidence tells us that the sexual rights of older adults are rarely met.

One of the main reasons is because society tends not to view older people as sexual.  Read on to find out the truth, about the most common myths. 

Fiction

Fact

Condoms are just for preventing pregnancy.

Condoms protect against all sexually transmitted infections.

Sex is just for young people.

Sex and intimacy are normal parts of life for many people as they get older.

Older people should not be allowed to have sex.

Older people are entitled to enjoy healthy, consensual sexual relationships.

It’s dangerous for older people to have sex, as they are at risk of things like heart attacks.

Engaging in sexual activity can help keep your heart strong, lower your stress levels, and help you maintain a more positive outlook on life.

Older people shouldn’t ask questions about their sexual health to healthcare professionals.

Older people can discuss any concerns any concerns about their sexual health with healthcare professionals.

What should I do if I have condomless sex?

Condomless sex is having sex without a condom, which can put you at risk of sexually transmitted infections (STI’s).  Both you and your partner need to get tested for STI’s.  This can be done by:

If you would like sexual health advice on a bank holiday or weekend, please call NHS 111 Wales.

With thanks to the University of Sheffield; Sexual Rights Charter for Older Adults – A Sexual Rights Charter for Older Adults

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